I am appalled at other people's manners when it comes to commenting on natural body parts and appearance. I have been growing my hair for a while, and since it descended past waist length I've had to start wearing it up or risk getting all sorts of comments from strangers. And I have white person hair, so I can't imagine the personal space violation that you've experienced over the years.

Urgh.

I think it is awesome that you accept your hair. I wish I could learn to do the same, thank you for sharing.