I don't get out much now because of being sick, but damn - I wish I could wear this post as a shirt (because when I do get out, I still feel this way - hell, people have tried to pick me up in several doctor's offices, or while getting blood work). This kind of shit should NOT happen, and yet does all the time. It's uncalled for. I'm so glad not every man that I (or you) know is like this, but none of them should HAVE to act in such a manner. It's not attractive.

Good for you for posting these things. I know you did it for you, but I so relate, and am glad you wrote this.