If you really meant the apology, you wouldn't have been making accusations or trying to get the last word in. If you really want to apologize and stop talking, the appropriate way to do that is pretty obvious-- apologize, and stop talking.
Frankly, I don't think you said anything that's really worth an apology over, either, and I wasn't expecting one. It's not really that big a deal. I was just surprised by your response-- I can understand someone taking offense at 'dishonest,' although it was the best word to describe what I was talking about, but it never occurred to me in a million years that anyone would think 'nicey-nice' is a word to get offended over. I'm not upset with you or even really mildly annoyed-- I'm just surprised, but it also explains why you're not comfortable living here a lot better than I understood it before. I wasn't even aware that Oklahomans considered themselves Southern, since it wasn't even opened to non-Native settlement until almost twenty years after the Civil War. I honestly figured you more for Texans, who are a lot more like us than most Southerners.
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Date: 2008-09-04 06:30 pm (UTC)Frankly, I don't think you said anything that's really worth an apology over, either, and I wasn't expecting one. It's not really that big a deal. I was just surprised by your response-- I can understand someone taking offense at 'dishonest,' although it was the best word to describe what I was talking about, but it never occurred to me in a million years that anyone would think 'nicey-nice' is a word to get offended over. I'm not upset with you or even really mildly annoyed-- I'm just surprised, but it also explains why you're not comfortable living here a lot better than I understood it before. I wasn't even aware that Oklahomans considered themselves Southern, since it wasn't even opened to non-Native settlement until almost twenty years after the Civil War. I honestly figured you more for Texans, who are a lot more like us than most Southerners.